Truth Hurts, Truth Heals

Have you ever held back a moment of honesty with someone because you were afraid it might hurt?

Afraid that the honest truth would hurt them, or they’d hurt you or a relationship would be damaged?

Only to later have the hurt and damage happen anyway?

Letting Go 

The last few days of the year always makes me feel like cleaning. There’s a sense of urgency to clear out the clutter, a feeling of letting go. This year especially with 2016 (for those of us into numerology) is a 9 year, a year of finishing, the end of a cycle of our lives.…

Choose Love

Sometimes it is so much harder to be good in this world Success takes longer You’ll get kicked harder You’ll be ridiculed, bullied, hurt, dragged down. You’ll lose to liars, be beaten by cheats. And somedays you’ll question why be good at all. It would be so much easier to quit, find an easy way…

Is it time to draw the line?

“It’s not you, it’s me.” Let’s face it, there are times when you just say that to not hurt their feelings when really you want to get out of the relationship tango with someone because they’re really starting to suck you dry. You know the ones, the toxics, the dream stealers, the people that stab…