There’s a misconception with coaching that as soon as you engage a coach your life will start to get better. And luckily for many it does. But unfortunately for many the journey to better is through a long dark tunnel of worse. What matters is how you judge your progress.
Have you ever held back a moment of honesty with someone because you were afraid it might hurt?
Afraid that the honest truth would hurt them, or they’d hurt you or a relationship would be damaged?
Only to later have the hurt and damage happen anyway?
The resolve of New Years Resolutions shouldn’t be underestimated- it has massive power to propel us forward. The new decisions we’ve made about how 2017 will be different can really come true – if we know how to make it so.
Have you ever wondered why we do what we do?
In coaching and human behaviour we know that while each human being is unique, we also share nervous systems that function in the same way, which means there are finite number of human behaviour patterns that we all have in common – we just put them together in many different ways.
Great success does not happen because you decided to try one day. It does not happen because you really hoped it would. It does not happen because you had a burst of enthusiasm and a moment of massive action – then spat the dummy and walked away when the results didn’t show up right away. Great success comes when you lean in when everyone … Read More The Secret to Success
Choice is everything in life. Choice has the power to turn the good into bad, or the bad into good. Choice keeps you on a spiral of CANI (Constant and neverending Improvement) or CANDisappointment. Choice let’s you notice love and truth or fear and doubt. Choice gives you the ability to create the reality of your nightmares or the world of your dreams? To … Read More Choice is Everything